Changing Others

The most important thing that one should remember is that you cannot change anything outside of you.
A man convinced against his will remains unconvinced still. You can only change yourself.
So no one, nothing, no event or anything can ever make you happy.
Happiness is an inside job. If you want something outside of you to change, you have to change.
As weird as it sounds that how it is. When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.
You should never look for love, appreciation and approval outside of yourself, because you will be disappointed.
Look for it inside, you have to build up enough love for yourself so that you have a lot to give.
If all else fails get out of the marriage or the relationship.
Here are three rules I learned from Wayne Dyer to keep balanced on this journey called life:
(1) Be independent of the good opinion of others.
(2) Detach from the outcome
(3) Relinquish the need to control others

Have a good day

Ken