Sunday, August 19, 2007

The Formula for Success


I hope you loved Dr Kem Thompson's article on analysis paralysis.

You see we have the sequence to success in life all wrong. Let me see if I can explain what I mean.

We don't achieve success because we are afraid of taking risks. We are afraid of taking risks because we are afraid of failure. We are afraid of failure because we are afraid of what people might think. All this leads to more low self-esteem and further erodes our chances of success.

No success (Analysis, Paralysis) = Fear of taking risks-caused by-Fear of failure-caused by-Fear of rejection

The Success formula is actually reversed. Its starts like this.....Your'e not afraid of what people might think, which makes you not afraid of failing. Since your'e not afraid of failing, then youre also not afraid of taking risks. This ultimately leads to success in any mission you undertake. This also boosts your self-esteem further.

Not afraid of what others think-leads to-Not afraid of failure-leads to-Not afraid of taking risks> SUCCESS!

"Its alright to be afraid. Fear is not absent in the lives of successful people, they have learned how to step forward in spite of it" says Peggy Mcoll . When you feel fear, remember the expression "It is better to step forward into growth than to step back into safety"

As for what others might think...remember statistics show that 95% of people don't think. They just have pre-formed opinions, usually other peoples opinions. So worrying about what they think is a waste of your time. It keeps you from accomplishing your goals.


You can be successful at anything you choose...you just have to work on your self esteem and then work diligently on your goals. Remember opportunities are always coming at you...you have to keep your eyes and mind open to recognize them,. Fear usually blocks this.

Stop Chasing Success....attract it

warmly,
Ken
Attract Freedom
http://www.attractfreedom.com

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